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| Steven Taylor Taylor Equities |
In the last few weeks, my work at Taylor Equities like many American’s typical daily
schedule has shifted dramatically. Many parents have been thrust into
homeschooling, and some are out of work. With these changes comes a sudden
increase in time at home spent with family. These times can be incredibly
stressful. But, during quarantine you may also find new and creative ways to
enjoy spending time with your kids. Hopefully, some of these habits will carry
on when things return to normal. Quality family time comes with many benefits and
is an important part of a well-rounded life.
If you are isolated with family, you may be tempted to create
detailed quarantine schedules or tackle work projects. While there is always
space for productivity, this is time to take advantage of the opportunity for
quality family bonding. Here are a few points that support the importance of
family time in a well-rounded life:
1. Quality time with
parents builds children’s self-esteem
Kids who regularly participate in activities with their parents
are able to build their sense of self-worth. It’s as simple as this: by
demonstrating that you value spending time with your children, they in turn
feel valuable. Quality family time doesn’t need to involve elaborate activities
or expensive outings. A walk through the neighborhood, collaborating on a
puzzle, watching a movie, or baking together can all be quality activities.
It’s not about what you are doing. It’s about being present with each other and
listening.
2. Common interests
strengthen family bonds
Parents and children who share interests such as hobbies,
sports, cuisine, or even movies, can develop strong family bonds. Of course, it
isn’t realistic that you will all
love the same things. But, finding some common ground with different members of
your family can help build emotional ties. By sharing a common experience and
developing memories, families grow closer. Take this down time as an
opportunity to find new ways to relate to your family members and build common
ground.
3. Prioritizing family sets a positive example
Spending quality family time is a way to create fond memories
and solidify traditions. Children who have positive experiences with family and
have happy memories are more inclined to provide a nurturing environment when
they have their own children. Finding the time to routinely make space for
family is one of the best examples you can show your kids. Showing your kids
love and attention only inspires them to show love to others in return.
4. Time together allows
parents to reconnect
Connection is an important part of a well-rounded life. For many
career-driven adults, it is easy to lose sight of what is important. It’s
possible that while you’ve been focused on providing for your family, you have
been missing out on essential shared moments.
Spending quality time with your family allows you to reconnect.
It is easier to get kids to open up about their lives while they are doing a
fun activity. Take the opportunity to ask them more creative questions than
“How was your day?” If you open up to your family, you may find that they are
more willing to share their emotions than you thought. Family time has many
benefits, but the joy of genuinely connecting with your kids is hard to beat. -
Steven Taylor Taylor Equities
